<?xml version='1.0' encoding='UTF-8'?><?xml-stylesheet href="http://www.blogger.com/styles/atom.css" type="text/css"?><feed xmlns='http://www.w3.org/2005/Atom' xmlns:openSearch='http://a9.com/-/spec/opensearchrss/1.0/'><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9104672783949108460.post1594117907348044026..comments</id><updated>2009-03-18T22:04:16.973-07:00</updated><title type='text'>Comments on Infertile Ground: Tripping</title><link rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#feed' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.infertileground.com/feeds/1594117907348044026/comments/default'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/9104672783949108460/1594117907348044026/comments/default'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://www.infertileground.com/2009/03/tripping.html'/><author><name>Lisa</name><email>noreply@blogger.com</email></author><generator version='7.00' uri='http://www.blogger.com'>Blogger</generator><openSearch:totalResults>9</openSearch:totalResults><openSearch:startIndex>1</openSearch:startIndex><openSearch:itemsPerPage>25</openSearch:itemsPerPage><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9104672783949108460.post-2129700432710213265</id><published>2009-03-18T22:04:00.000-07:00</published><updated>2009-03-18T22:04:00.000-07:00</updated><title type='text'>Hi, Just catching up after being gone for a long t...</title><content type='html'>Hi, Just catching up after being gone for a long time...&lt;BR/&gt;&lt;BR/&gt;Anyhow, we do wear a badge of some sorts that shows that we have been battle-tested.  I'm glad that your mom understands and appreciates this.</content><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/9104672783949108460/1594117907348044026/comments/default/2129700432710213265'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/9104672783949108460/1594117907348044026/comments/default/2129700432710213265'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://www.infertileground.com/2009/03/tripping.html?showComment=1237439040000#c2129700432710213265' title=''/><author><name>Arpee</name><uri>http://befruitfulsaga.com</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email></author><thr:in-reply-to xmlns:thr='http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0' href='http://www.infertileground.com/2009/03/tripping.html' ref='tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9104672783949108460.post-1594117907348044026' source='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/9104672783949108460/posts/default/1594117907348044026' type='text/html'/></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9104672783949108460.post-3011474466234073969</id><published>2009-03-12T08:03:00.000-07:00</published><updated>2009-03-12T08:03:00.000-07:00</updated><title type='text'>Yeah, we're usually proud of achieving a goal afte...</title><content type='html'>Yeah, we're usually proud of achieving a goal after lots of hard work. I can see why it was weird to think of a painful process, over which you had little if any control, would be a source of pride.&lt;BR/&gt;&lt;BR/&gt;Life's got those tripping moments. Here's to a respite of mundane normalcy.&lt;BR/&gt;&lt;BR/&gt;Love,&lt;BR/&gt;&lt;BR/&gt;Elizabeth</content><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/9104672783949108460/1594117907348044026/comments/default/3011474466234073969'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/9104672783949108460/1594117907348044026/comments/default/3011474466234073969'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://www.infertileground.com/2009/03/tripping.html?showComment=1236870180000#c3011474466234073969' title=''/><author><name>Anonymous</name><email>noreply@blogger.com</email></author><thr:in-reply-to xmlns:thr='http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0' href='http://www.infertileground.com/2009/03/tripping.html' ref='tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9104672783949108460.post-1594117907348044026' source='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/9104672783949108460/posts/default/1594117907348044026' type='text/html'/></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9104672783949108460.post-133981350938409230</id><published>2009-03-11T08:20:00.000-07:00</published><updated>2009-03-11T08:20:00.000-07:00</updated><title type='text'>Oh Lorraine, I know my parents are lovely. I didn'...</title><content type='html'>Oh Lorraine, I know my parents are lovely. I didn't find my mom awkward or think it was the wrong thing to say. The "weirdness" was my own in-the-moment internal reaction to associating pride with pain.</content><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/9104672783949108460/1594117907348044026/comments/default/133981350938409230'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/9104672783949108460/1594117907348044026/comments/default/133981350938409230'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://www.infertileground.com/2009/03/tripping.html?showComment=1236784800000#c133981350938409230' title=''/><author><name>Lisa</name><uri>http://www.infertileground.com</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email></author><thr:in-reply-to xmlns:thr='http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0' href='http://www.infertileground.com/2009/03/tripping.html' ref='tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9104672783949108460.post-1594117907348044026' source='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/9104672783949108460/posts/default/1594117907348044026' type='text/html'/></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9104672783949108460.post-2242863080868277795</id><published>2009-03-10T22:19:00.000-07:00</published><updated>2009-03-10T22:19:00.000-07:00</updated><title type='text'>Sounds like some good parents you've got there. I ...</title><content type='html'>Sounds like some good parents you've got there. I find that even when my parents are trying to be kind and supportive it's always a bit awkward - maybe it's easier to see when someone else's parents are being lovely?</content><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/9104672783949108460/1594117907348044026/comments/default/2242863080868277795'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/9104672783949108460/1594117907348044026/comments/default/2242863080868277795'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://www.infertileground.com/2009/03/tripping.html?showComment=1236748740000#c2242863080868277795' title=''/><author><name>Lorraine</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/04180034761243431694</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email></author><thr:in-reply-to xmlns:thr='http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0' href='http://www.infertileground.com/2009/03/tripping.html' ref='tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9104672783949108460.post-1594117907348044026' source='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/9104672783949108460/posts/default/1594117907348044026' type='text/html'/></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9104672783949108460.post-7804053996208868421</id><published>2009-03-10T21:43:00.000-07:00</published><updated>2009-03-10T21:43:00.000-07:00</updated><title type='text'>They have every reason to be proud of you. I am pr...</title><content type='html'>They have every reason to be proud of you. I am proud of you too. Your strength and honesty is inspiring.</content><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/9104672783949108460/1594117907348044026/comments/default/7804053996208868421'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/9104672783949108460/1594117907348044026/comments/default/7804053996208868421'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://www.infertileground.com/2009/03/tripping.html?showComment=1236746580000#c7804053996208868421' title=''/><author><name>Evil Stepmonster</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/00698559558607074249</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:extendedProperty xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' name='OpenSocialUserId' value='00164634245273234190'/></author><thr:in-reply-to xmlns:thr='http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0' href='http://www.infertileground.com/2009/03/tripping.html' ref='tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9104672783949108460.post-1594117907348044026' source='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/9104672783949108460/posts/default/1594117907348044026' type='text/html'/></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9104672783949108460.post-3370980439208091870</id><published>2009-03-10T19:42:00.000-07:00</published><updated>2009-03-10T19:42:00.000-07:00</updated><title type='text'>Parents always say awkward things.  I say things t...</title><content type='html'>Parents always say awkward things.  I say things to my daughter that are sometimes worded in the worst way possible, in hindsight.  But I mean well.  When she runs into rough patches in life, I tell her stories of the brave ones I have met along the way.  Yours will be a story that stays with me always.</content><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/9104672783949108460/1594117907348044026/comments/default/3370980439208091870'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/9104672783949108460/1594117907348044026/comments/default/3370980439208091870'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://www.infertileground.com/2009/03/tripping.html?showComment=1236739320000#c3370980439208091870' title=''/><author><name>Opus #6</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/02063785617333740178</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email></author><thr:in-reply-to xmlns:thr='http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0' href='http://www.infertileground.com/2009/03/tripping.html' ref='tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9104672783949108460.post-1594117907348044026' source='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/9104672783949108460/posts/default/1594117907348044026' type='text/html'/></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9104672783949108460.post-4902717995054228275</id><published>2009-03-10T14:30:00.000-07:00</published><updated>2009-03-10T14:30:00.000-07:00</updated><title type='text'>Your parents have a million reasons to be proud of...</title><content type='html'>Your parents have a million reasons to be proud of you.  Your strength is just one of those reasons.&lt;BR/&gt;&lt;BR/&gt;I'm proud of you, too, sister.</content><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/9104672783949108460/1594117907348044026/comments/default/4902717995054228275'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/9104672783949108460/1594117907348044026/comments/default/4902717995054228275'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://www.infertileground.com/2009/03/tripping.html?showComment=1236720600000#c4902717995054228275' title=''/><author><name>Tara</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/14683127027917195775</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:extendedProperty xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' name='OpenSocialUserId' value='04447706033565942913'/></author><thr:in-reply-to xmlns:thr='http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0' href='http://www.infertileground.com/2009/03/tripping.html' ref='tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9104672783949108460.post-1594117907348044026' source='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/9104672783949108460/posts/default/1594117907348044026' type='text/html'/></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9104672783949108460.post-9080656372226174468</id><published>2009-03-10T08:33:00.000-07:00</published><updated>2009-03-10T08:33:00.000-07:00</updated><title type='text'>I agree with Ms. Heathen. I think you are a strong...</title><content type='html'>I agree with Ms. Heathen. I think you are a strong woman who is rebuilding her life. You're amazing and I look up to you for strength.</content><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/9104672783949108460/1594117907348044026/comments/default/9080656372226174468'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/9104672783949108460/1594117907348044026/comments/default/9080656372226174468'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://www.infertileground.com/2009/03/tripping.html?showComment=1236699180000#c9080656372226174468' title=''/><author><name>Beautiful Mess</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/02425541240465474148</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email></author><thr:in-reply-to xmlns:thr='http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0' href='http://www.infertileground.com/2009/03/tripping.html' ref='tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9104672783949108460.post-1594117907348044026' source='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/9104672783949108460/posts/default/1594117907348044026' type='text/html'/></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9104672783949108460.post-8170741649450511664</id><published>2009-03-10T06:47:00.000-07:00</published><updated>2009-03-10T06:47:00.000-07:00</updated><title type='text'>I think that it must take real strength and courag...</title><content type='html'>I think that it must take real strength and courage to begin rebuilding after all you've been through.  &lt;BR/&gt;&lt;BR/&gt;I too am proud of you.</content><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/9104672783949108460/1594117907348044026/comments/default/8170741649450511664'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/9104672783949108460/1594117907348044026/comments/default/8170741649450511664'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://www.infertileground.com/2009/03/tripping.html?showComment=1236692820000#c8170741649450511664' title=''/><author><name>Ms Heathen</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/06404067891155971103</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email></author><thr:in-reply-to xmlns:thr='http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0' href='http://www.infertileground.com/2009/03/tripping.html' ref='tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9104672783949108460.post-1594117907348044026' source='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/9104672783949108460/posts/default/1594117907348044026' type='text/html'/></entry></feed>